And then there was snow..


I can


can’t flee everything

and expect

it to

magically disappear.

I was told.

my rebuttle..

no, BUT.

Right, You Can flee and expect it to reappear daily in one form or another.

Sometimes we (maybe just I) need constant reminders before we are completely healed and ready to accept whatever is the cause for  the flight in the first place. Lengthy examination is exhausting, but for some, inevitable. Note to self.. save your time.

It’s best to deal with the hand as it’s dealt, to play your odds in your favor the best you can, and deal with the outcome. It’s always best to play the hand rather than sit and wait and watch and wonder.. Can I?

Be adventagious, assertive and scared as hell; jump in and make choices, make errors and learn from them. We learn based on our own experiences more and retain the memory longer rather than being told the outcomes as they are forseen by others.

I can flee and pretend it magically disappeared until I am able and willing to work out each individual part. Some problems are big and some are small. Some mistakes are big and some are small.

We take what we get. As we will all get them all. Having them (any problem, any mistake) is one thing dealing with them is another entirely. We don’t want to have to, but really we are only stretching the amount of time we endure their pain and making it bigger ourselves; by ignoring whatever scares us. Don’t be scared, but be scared just enough you feel empowered for good things. Relief is one example. Peace is another.

Love one another, accept that you’re human, you make mistakes, but you learn something. That’s adaptation and evolution of humanity.

Working together for the best outcome of one individual with good intentions gives hope to others to have good intentions, do right by your neighbor.

Good benefits all.


Have a happy healthy day.



Tricks aren’t for kids.

Staring out the window, visualizing in my head the last 2 weeks of changes; in the weather, the changes in people, staring into oblivion and then Halloween takes over my mind. I want Halloween, I want to be thrilled, not a lot, but a little; spooked maybe and just plain have innocent fun, as we all do, whatever that may be. Looking into my coffee and there sitting next to it is a..

purple spider.

Instantly I want to see that purple spider in my coffee. What would it look like? Will it float? How silly, I think, then I think why not? I grab the spider, go to the sink and wash it carefully. (I still want to drink my spidered coffee) Grinning like a little kid, I noticed; chuckled to myself and excitedly walked over to my coffee and slipped the little purple spider in. Ha Ha Ha (actually truly laughing at this nonsensical idea and it’s entirity, wow I am easily entertained, really?)

I had disbelief of my own enjoyment. But, because I chose to let go of a common norm of how everything is “supposed” to be and just did it (pure joy) enabled me to feel free.

I realized simply that it was worth it, simple fun, a simple action caused a simple joy.

I felt silly=good,

I felt youthful=good,

It was harmless=good.


Adult Halloween is born.

Trick or Treat is the phrase after the knock at the door, why no tricks?

I suggest Adult Trick or Treating.

This concept could be tremendous!

Think about it adult time, a time of night on Halloween only for adults; where you can “be” whatever, whomever you can conjure up in your mind as horrific or as sweet as you can imagine; going door to door expecting to get the shit scared out of you, hence the “trick”..

Or a massive treat that’s a true treat; full size candy bars! All in fun for us to relive our youth or to express some side of ourselves we are unable to in everyday society.

While you’re out this Halloween, look at the costumes, really look and you might learn something about someone inside they are unwillimg to show other times of the year.

Ha, think about all the “sassy” outfits and extreme coatumes. Relating this theory makes you wonder what side of their personality are they trying to show the world?

Funny memory, two guys dressed as boobs one year. One could only think there are mommy issues as they even have a partner in costume, not to be alone. hmm

Ponder your costume, ponder your trick.

Adults can have fun too.

Maybe your coffee lover would enjoy being tricked? Pending how cruel you are a black spider would be right on target this Hallloween.

Be safe, be free, live and let be.

Happy Halloween!


Music Man

I Heard a kids song today. It makes me wonder why morals aren't as easily recognized in mature music, as adults why aren't we reminded to.

It's hard to choose right from wrong. When teaching children we use clear consice tactics to show them literally this skill.

I feel as adults there is more of a need to elude others of our consice tactics that are defining our rights from wrongs as a norm.

Weird, hypocrits in the fullest sense we can easily become. A song with a little less sex and a little more love on the music lineup of today's charts might be handy.

Producers, please produce morally concious awaremess on your next big hit. It's a privilidge you carry with the messages you create and the receptions that are received.

Ocean So True

Ride the waves.

Feel the ocean so blue.

Each one coming in is new.

Ride the waves.

They all come to you.

Crashing down on the shore.

Ride the waves.

No one now is ever like before.

Feel the ocean slap you in the face.

Cold wet like never before.

Wake up, you’re dreamimg.

It’s not a wave

It was raining,

While you were sleeping.

It’s easy to smile at what we think we had.

It’s just as easy to smile about what will be.

Smile, it looks good on you and it feels good too.

Fall fell


Fall fell and bumped it’s leaves.

As we knew it would, today is always different from tomorrow.

See the beauty in the changes.

They’re not all colorful.

The fallen leaf smell can’t be captured with a photograph.